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IMPACT:
Janet and her children first learned about the Ready to
Read program while at a local immunization clinic where
books were being distributed. Like most kids, Cassie
and Ryan didn't enjoy going to the clinic, but getting a
new book to take home really helped. They were excited
to have books of their very own.
Although she read to
her children occasionally, as a busy single mom, Janet
didn't always make reading part of their daily routine.
Besides receiving a free book, Janet was also given
parent information with tips for making reading time
more enjoyable and interactive.
After learning what
a difference a daily reading time could make in her
children's language development and how it would benefit
them when they started school, Janet made a commitment
to read to her children every day. Now she calls it,
"the best part of our day."
IMPACT:
Jennifer and her three children arrived in Wausau
looking for a new start. Initially, they were living
in a shelter and Jennifer was looking for a job. Her
two oldest children were in school, but scheduling
interviews was difficult because she still needed child
care for her youngest.
Bridging the Gap
Childcare stepped in and provided childcare. Jennifer
was able to go on interviews and search for work
knowing her son was in a quality learning environment.
Before long Jennifer
was hired by a local company. She was able to move into
an apartment and provide for her children. Today she is
an active, self-sufficient member of the Wausau
community.
IMPACT:
The Horizons Mentoring Program matches an adult female
mentor with a young girl needing some help through the
difficult time of adolescence. This letter was written
by one young lady about her experiences with the
program:
“My mentor is my
best friend. It doesn’t matter that I’m 16 and she’s in
her mid-thirties. I talk to her about family and friend
problems, and school problems. She’s always willing to
listen to anything I’ve got to say and knows how to
offer good advice and help me sort out my feelings.
I’ve learned from her that no matter how bad things get,
they could always be worse and to look at the good side
of things and build from there. She is the one person I
know I can always go to with any situation and she’ll do
her best to try and help me figure out what to do.
She’s been my mentor for 5 years and I continue to learn
so much from her. Everyone’s got good times and bad
times. Through all those times for me, my mentor and
friend has made all the difference.”
With the support of
her mentor, this young girl successfully completed
school and is continuing her education.
IMPACT:
Travis was abusing drugs and alcohol. He frequently
skipped classes or completely missed school. He was
arrested while trying to sell a CD player that he had
stolen. He had been hospitalized after drinking so much
he was almost comatose. His parents didn’t know what to
do next.
Fortunately, a
counselor suggested CHOICES, and Travis was ready to
give it a try. This intensive, outpatient program used
group therapy, family therapy and education about the
consequences of drug and alcohol abuse.
Nine months later,
Travis has turned his life around. He has been
substance free, his relationship with his family is much
better, and he has not had further legal trouble. He’s
setting goals and planning for the future.
IMPACT:
Jim is like many of us, he worked, saved, paid his bills
and provided for his family, until he had a seizure at
work. He's been off work and has been receiving
short-term disability through his employer, but that is
due to run out soon--along with his health insurance.
His doctor hasn't released him to return to work, and he
likely will not be able to return to his old job as it
requires working around machinery. He's exhausted his
savings, and is very worried about paying his bills. He
called United Way's 2-1-1 in search of help.
The 2-1-1
Information and Referral Specialist suggested a number
of sources to help Jim and his family. Food pantries,
energy and rent assistance programs may be able to help
him. If he can't return to his previous job, they
suggested Job Service and retraining programs for him to
investigate. They also offered to mail him directories
and brochures with additional information.
In a follow-up call
Jim reported that he had called most of the programs,
and was utilizing their services. Things are looking a
little better and he hopes to find a new job soon. For
Jim, United Way's 2-1-1 was the best way to connect to
the many services that are available to help people in
our community.
IMPACT:
After 43 years of domestic abuse, Mary, at age 71, left
her husband. She heard about the Abuse in Later Life
program from her divorce attorney.
Her sister
accompanied her on the first visit and she was visibly
shaking from fear that her husband was following her.
He had promised to see her dead many times. Mary soon
started coming alone and never missed a support group
meeting. A staff member also went with her to attorney
appointments and court
hearings.
As she grew
stronger, she started to blossom. She had loved to
write as a young girl and soon was sharing her new
poetry at group. The poems were beautiful and her face
lit up when she read them. After several months, she
started to share the horrific years of abuse she had
endured and the constant terror she continues to live
with on a daily basis. Women in the group listened
gently and lovingly, and she learned that she was not
alone.
Mary has emerged
into a force to be reckoned with. She now volunteers in
the community, sharing her story so that others will
know there is help for a better life.
IMPACT: Bill
is retired and lives on a limited fixed income. He
often has trouble making ends meet and keeping a roof
over his head takes most of his money.
He counts on eating
his noon meal at The Salvation Army every day. He
realizes that the nutritious, balanced lunch he eats
there is important for his health, since his other
meals are not the best.
He has been coming
to lunch for some time and has gotten to know a few of
the other people who come to eat there, too. In
addition to a good meal, he enjoys visiting with his
friends. Sometimes he volunteers to help clean up
afterwards by wiping down the tables or sweeping the
floor.
Bill appreciates the
meal, and the companionship.
IMPACT:
Like many other older residents in our community, Mary
lives alone and does not have family living in the
area. She is 82 years old and is able to walk, but
needs some help with stairs. This makes it impossible
for Mary to take the bus, and since she never learned to
drive, Mary has been dependent on friends and neighbors
for transportation since her
husband died.
Recently, she
learned about the Specialized Transportation program
available for elderly and/or disabled residents. She
called and was delighted to learn that she could get a
ride from her home to a local shopping center to do some
errands. She was even happier to learn that she could
use the same service to get a ride to the grocery store
to do her shopping or to her medical appointments.
Transportation
directly to her door has made it possible for Mary to
remain living independently in the community .
IMPACT:
Jeff and Patty’s daughter, Amy, has severe disabilities
that limit her mobility and require constant, 24 hour
supervision.
It was impossible
for Jeff and Patty to leave her with a babysitter or
other caregiver, until they found Respite Activity Day
at Tyler’s Home for Kids.
Each month, Patty
drops Amy off at Tyler’s Home for an afternoon of fun,
games and activities with other children. While there,
licensed staff and caring volunteers are available to
provide whatever services Amy needs.
That one afternoon a
month has been a lifesaver for Jeff and Patty, who use
the time to run errands, see friends, or just reconnect
with one another. And, Amy loves the time she gets to
spend with other children on her “Special Saturday”
afternoons.
IMPACT:
Brandon was placed in foster care at the age of 10 as a
result of being emotionally, physically, and sexually
abused by his father from the time he was 4 years old.
He suffered from
attachment disorder as a direct result of the abuse, and
was not able to bond to his parents or his foster
parents. He acted out in aggressive ways, experienced
nightmares, performed poorly in school, and had no
friends.
After a year of
intensive therapy, Brandon is able to sleep through the
night, only occasionally has outbursts and accepts
appropriate attention from his foster parents instead of
shutting them out.
Brandon had a rough
start, but with therapy, support and a caring foster
family, he is well on his way to a healthier, happier
life.
IMPACT:
When Linda first came into counseling at an AODA
program, she was drinking to intoxication daily and also
using marijuana several times a week. She couldn’t hold
a job and had turned to prostitution to pay for her
drugs and alcohol. She had tried treatment before with
little success.
Her parents
convinced her to try one last time and allowed her to
move back home while she attended counseling. She
immediately started attending individual, family and
group sessions, and later attended a special “women
only” group where she felt free to talk about the things
she had done to support her habit.
She has been clean
and sober for 9 months, has a job and is thinking about
moving into her own apartment. She has developed a
strong support system including her AA sponsor and
attends meetings regularly. Linda turned her life
around.
IMPACT:
Bill is a retired machine operator who stopped by a
blood pressure screening site. His readings had been
elevated for several years, but he continued to deny
there was any reason to be concerned.
Fortunately, his
wife was able to convince him to see a doctor who
advised him to start exercising and to change his
diet--or he would need medication to lower his blood
pressure. Bill chose diet and exercise and is making
progress in reducing his blood pressure. As an added
bonus, he’s feeling better too. He continues to use the
blood screening site to monitor his readings and report
to his doctor.
This program caught
a problem early and helped Bill make necessary lifestyle
changes to improve his health and prevent or delay more
serious health problems.
IMPACT:
Jane was twenty-four years old, divorced and had three
young children when she contacted the Birth Parent
Counseling program. Her children had been removed from
her home and were in foster care. She was struggling
with alcoholism and needed to enter a treatment
program. She also wanted to return to school so that
she could get a job that would allow her to be
self-sufficient.
Staff from the Birth
Parent Counseling program met with Jane, her ex-husband,
and the Department of Social Services to find a solution
that would be in the best interest of the children.
Today, Jane has
undergone treatment and remains sober, she is enrolled
at NTC, and is working with a couple who want to provide
a permanent, loving home for her children. With the
help of the Birth Place Counseling program, she was able
to focus on the needs of her children and believes
living with an adoptive family is in their best
interest.
For Jane, the Birth
Place Counseling program provided the support and
encouragement to help her make this very difficult
decision.
IMPACT:
If you had asked Sally Gartmann to describe her life
back in spring of 2006, she would have said, “almost
perfect.” But her world changed drastically when she
was diagnosed with stage 3 colon cancer.
About that same
time, Anne Balciar, a 15 year old Cadet Girl Scout was
completing work on her Silver Award. Anne was putting
together “Comfort Care Packages” for patients undergoing
chemotherapy.
Although her
attitude was usually positive, Sally, like anyone facing
a critical illness, has her down times too. It was one
of those times that was brightened by Anne’s care
package. The card attached to the gift bag just
identified the giver as “Anne, a Cadet Scout working on
a Silver Award.”
When the 26 patients
who received packages started opening them, the first
things they discovered were hats, scarves, gloves and
fleece blankets to fight the cold intolerance so common
during chemotherapy. Digging further, they found
bottled water, snacks and a fun “Emergency Stress Kit”
filled with funny little sayings and motivators to keep
their spirits up.
Having been a Scout
herself, Sally recalls campfires, hiking and other fun
events. “When I was a girl, we may have done some
caroling at the nursing home, Sally said, “but nothing
that comes close to this level of giving.”
According to Mary
Radke, Executive Director of the Girl Scouts of Birch
Trails Council, almost 7200 hours of community service
were performed by Girl Scouts in our area last year.
Long after Sally’s
treatments are completed, she will always remember how
Anne’s care package brought her comfort and happiness
during a very difficult time. “I’m so pleased that
United Way funds programs like the Girl Scouts. Can you
imagine the impact that girls like Anne will have in
their communities when they are adults?” Sally
commented.
IMPACT:
Koua Her was failing in school, a habitual truant,
living in a foster home, on adult probation and without
much of a future in 2000.
Her had arrived in
the United States at the age of nine. Learning to
speak, read and write English were his biggest
challenges. And, he really didn’t like school. By the
time he was a teen, Her said, “I started hanging out
with the wrong crowd.”
He was living in a
foster home when he met David Zuege, program director at
Wausau Fresh Start, a partner program of the United Way
of Marathon County.
Wausau Fresh Start
helps young men and women obtain a diploma, learn
real-life work skills and earn vouchers that can be used
to continue their education. Most of the young people
in the program have either failed in traditional
educational settings, are on probation or parole, or
both. Many are habitual truants and often have drug or
alcohol problems.
Her eventually
completed two contracts with Wausau Fresh Start. During
that time he worked on his high school diploma and
helped build the first Wausau Fresh Start home. Besides
construction skills, crew members are required to
demonstrate reliability, responsibility, teamwork,
honesty and commitment, all skills that are highly
valued by future employers.
Today, Her has
earned his high school equivalency diploma and is an
apprentice in the carpenters union, working with Asian
American Construction. He and his wife have two
children and live in Wausau. When talking about his
time with Fresh Start, Her commented, “They turned my
life around. If it wasn’t for Fresh Start, I don’t know
where I would be.”
In the
last six years, Wausau Fresh Start has helped 96 youth
turn their life around, built 11 new homes, and has two
more in progress. In addition to providing an
alternative for at-risk youth, the homes are sold to
low-income
families, helping them obtain home ownership.
IMPACT:
As a long-time United Way of Marathon County
donor and volunteer, Florence Goertz didn’t ever expect
to be on the receiving end of a United Way program.
Goertz and her late husband, Kermit, both volunteered
countless hours with United Way since the mid-1980s.
Florence continued to volunteer in the United Way office
until just 2006.
But then everything
changed. Health problems meant a long hospital stay and
when Florence was well enough to be discharged she
wanted to return to her own home. While she was able
to take care of many of her needs, she needed to use a
walker for stability. One challenge to living alone was
preparing meals. She didn’t have the stamina and
mobility to cook for herself.
Each weekday a hot,
nutritious meal is delivered by a volunteer driver from
Wausau Area Mobile Meals. Since the meals are prepared
at Aspirus Wausau Hospital, meeting dietary requirements
like low-sodium or diabetic restrictions is part of the
service. United Way funds help keep the cost
affordable. This is just one United Way program that is
helping people remain independent and living in their
own home.
IMPACT:
As a public health nurse in rural Marathon County, Peggy
visits women who are pregnant or have recently given
birth. She was visiting a new mom who had several older
children ranging in age from 5 to 11, and gave them two
books from the Ready to Read program. When she asked
“Who likes to read?” the children were very eager to
show her their reading skills. These books were
printed in both English and Spanish, which lead to a
conversation about the value of speaking two
languages, the importance of reading as a family, and
developing language skills in children.
Maria, the mother, admitted that she is
afraid of losing the ability to communicate with her
children, since Abbie, the oldest, now speaks English
more easily than Spanish. Peggy shared with her the
different resources available in the community,
including English classes for adults, Spanish/English
materials at the public library and others. They also
discussed the importance of both languages and helping
the children develop skills in both English and Spanish.
Peggy was able to open a discussion
about reading, language, adult literacy and diversity,
with something as simple as a child’s book from the
Ready to Read program. Because the family was
comfortable with her, they were very open to her
suggestions to improve all of their communication
skills. As a family, they are working on reading and
language development in both languages. It is important
to their family that they retain the Spanish language
and customs, while at the same time learning English to
help them find better jobs, do better in school and
become fully participating members of our community.
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